Cell phone era

'there's just one thing I hate, my girlfriend searching my cell phone.'


'why is that?'


'she just might see something that creates suspicion and could be a turn for the worst for our relationship'

Hmmmm....

Each time I hear someone say this statement (mostly male), the first thing that comes to mind is: "if there is nothing for her to be suspicious about, then why is there a problem?"

In the same breath, we look at cell phone privacy... does this refer to the cell phone provider? or does it also refers to our partners showing us the same respect?

So on a serious note, if you have 'nothing' to hide, you are being truthful to your partner and anything suspicious on your phone is indeed 'innocent' why do you have a problem when he/she goes through your phone?

Is it safe to assume that persons who have a problem with their partners going through their phones are really hiding something or they're up to something?