The Jamaica Aids Society (JAS) has been on a series of campaign to educate the public about keeping one parter. I've noticed that most (if not all) of their ads focuses on the male. They advise 'men' to keep one partner but I've not seen ads for the opposite sex.
Even though the statistics show that men are the weak link in a relationship when it comes onto fidelity. what the statistics 'secretly' prove is that women are greater liars. Women do cheat (I'm not saying all)... but they are not excluded from the category.
A man will brag and boast about the amount of 'flesh' he has touched just to boost his ego and put his ratings among his friends at the top of the 'gallis' ladder. A female will go to her grave with her secret (even after filling out the form that ask personal/confidential questions); if she does tell a 'friend', this is something like taboo, it should not leave the confines of the walls from which it was spoken.
It is not right for a partner to be involved with someone else while being in an agreed monogamous relationship with another person. Our society is not one where we need to take on the culture of the Africans so we can have more than one partners. When someone tries to adapt some of the principles that the Americans has set, the first thing you hear is 'him foreign minded eeeeh, everything dem see 'Merica do, dem do too'; BUT, a man will easily brag that he is African so he can have more that one gyaal... when the reality is:
he probably can't pinpoint the geographical location of Africa without using Google Earth
the closest thing on him that is African is his kinky-ass hair
his concept of Africa is malnourished people and lots of women
If our culture was that of the Africans, getting 'bun' wouldn't affect us emotionally; it would've been an accepted action among all and not just among the ones who hold onto a man/woman because they have set their standards so low that they can't even get under it themselves.
Even though the statistics show that men are the weak link in a relationship when it comes onto fidelity. what the statistics 'secretly' prove is that women are greater liars. Women do cheat (I'm not saying all)... but they are not excluded from the category.
A man will brag and boast about the amount of 'flesh' he has touched just to boost his ego and put his ratings among his friends at the top of the 'gallis' ladder. A female will go to her grave with her secret (even after filling out the form that ask personal/confidential questions); if she does tell a 'friend', this is something like taboo, it should not leave the confines of the walls from which it was spoken.
It is not right for a partner to be involved with someone else while being in an agreed monogamous relationship with another person. Our society is not one where we need to take on the culture of the Africans so we can have more than one partners. When someone tries to adapt some of the principles that the Americans has set, the first thing you hear is 'him foreign minded eeeeh, everything dem see 'Merica do, dem do too'; BUT, a man will easily brag that he is African so he can have more that one gyaal... when the reality is:
he probably can't pinpoint the geographical location of Africa without using Google Earth
the closest thing on him that is African is his kinky-ass hair
his concept of Africa is malnourished people and lots of women
If our culture was that of the Africans, getting 'bun' wouldn't affect us emotionally; it would've been an accepted action among all and not just among the ones who hold onto a man/woman because they have set their standards so low that they can't even get under it themselves.
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